Insecure Writer’s Support Group

Welcome back to my monthly Insecure Writer’s Support Group (IWSG) post. The first Wednesday of every month writers form across the virtual world log in and share in a collective moment of twittering focus. CHeck it out by clicking the image above.

The co-hosts for the May 1 posting of the IWSG are Victoria Marie Lees, Nancy Gideon, me, and Cathrina Constantine!

The May 1st question is how do you deal with distractions when you are writing? Do they derail you?

Hmm…depends on the day. I am very focused on most days. I set aside mornings to write, and I get up early to ensure it is a chunk of time. I go to my office and sit in front of my laptop and try to put down words without TV, music, or outside distractions. That works most days, but there are other days where I just need to curl up in my chair and zone out. Honestly, I give in to those instincts sometimes. I think it is part and parcel of expecting something out of my brain to also give it the zone-out days it seems to require. Today is one of those days, by the way. This blog post is the only writing I’m doing this morning. 😉

I’ll leave you with a book recommendation. I just finished Leah Bardugo’s The Familiar, and I enjoyed it. If you’re looking for a new read, give it a go. See you next month.

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About kimlajevardi

I am a forty-something-year-old writer. I'm currently drafting my second book. I've also written short stories, poems, and some non-fiction over the last several years. My interest in writing formed during countless hours with my nose tucked in books. I’m represented by Kristina Sutton Lennon at Focused Artists.
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45 Responses to Insecure Writer’s Support Group

  1. mlouisebarbourfundyblue's avatar mlouisebarbourfundyblue says:

    Happy IWSG Gay, Kim! I hope all is well with you!

  2. Natalie Aguirre's avatar Natalie Aguirre says:

    Thanks for co-hosting today. That’s great that you can devote time in the morning for your writing. I have a day job writing and do it then when I’m most focused. I try to write when I eat lunch, though today I’m reading blogs.

  3. debscarey's avatar debscarey says:

    I agree – time to zone out (or replenish energy) is key to all forms of living a balanced life, so why not to writing too 🙂 Thanks for being a co-host today.

    Debs posting today from Fiction Can Be Fun
    Also found at Debs Despatches

  4. Loni Townsend's avatar Loni Townsend says:

    Thanks for co-hosting! I used to be a lot more writing-focused in the mornings, but it seems my time keeps getting shorter and shorter. Now I try to take care of the shorter tasks, like visiting blogs, before work, and leave the writing for my lunch.

  5. Unknown's avatar Anonymous says:

    A writing instructor once said to me, “Thinking is writing, too.” Zone out days provide balance and gives your brain time to ponder, which can result in better writing. Thank you for co-hosting IWSG this month!

  6. patgarcia's avatar patgarcia says:

    Hi,

    I love your zoning out. There are times that I need that too, especially between four and five in the afternoon. I just need to sit back and rest my mind.

    Have a lovely day and thank you for co-hosting.

    Shalom shalom

  7. Unknown's avatar Anonymous says:

    I seem to recall realizing a year or so back that when I do long trips and hikes, sometimes I need to take a “zero day” when I don’t go anywhere or do anything. I think the brain needs a few of those as well!

  8. Unknown's avatar Anonymous says:

    Zone-out days. I need more of those. Or maybe less.

    Good answer to the question.

    -Jamie of Uniquely Maladjusted but Fun

  9. Toi Thomas's avatar Toi Thomas says:

    Happy IWSG Day! Thanks for co-hosting.

    I like the sound of zone-out breaks. I think I take lots of those.

  10. Olga Godim's avatar Olga Godim says:

    My favorite time is in the ‘zone’. Lately, I’ve even been wondering if I’m still a writer, when I haven’t been doing any fiction writing for a couple months. 😦

  11. cleemckenzie's avatar cleemckenzie says:

    Having a schedule helps. Sometimes I can make that work, but other times, that darned schedule is blown to bits by the unexpected. My hardest job is to learn to adjust. Thanks for the great post today and for co-hosting.

    https://cleemckenziebooks.substack.com/p/writer-derailed

  12. In case my first comment has landed in another solar system, thanks for co-hosting!

    ~ diedre https/pensivepens.blogspot.com

  13. A good mix of nature, reading, and research seems to keep my mind well rested and ready to continue, finish, or begin something new whenever I get back to my office. I think you’ve got a handle on that kind of balance. Thanks for co-hosting!

  14. It varies for me, too. I need different things on different days.

    @samanthabwriter from<a href=”http://samanthabryant.com“>Balancing Act</a>

  15. Kristina Kelly's avatar Kristina Kelly says:

    I can do music if it’s without words, but like you cannot write with the TV.

  16. Thanks for hosting! I think zoning out is actual a crucial part of letting our minds relax, digest the world, and (eventually) spit out some great ideas. Glad to heaar someone else zones out too (It’s nice to not be alone 🙂 )

  17. Unknown's avatar Anonymous says:

    I’m definitely seeing a trend. It looks like it’s all about balance and knowing when to get distracted. Also, thanks for the recommendation, I just heard Leah Bardugo’s interview on NPR yesterday, and I’m definitely intrigued.

  18. I absolutely agree. When that urge to take a break–zone out–takes over, go with it. There’s a reason.

  19. Thanks for co-hosting. Do you find drawn to a zone-out day when the day presents showers, soft hues of blue and grey, the muffled sounds of traffic? It’s life’s free ticket to slow down and just be. It can lead to blue thoughts so I resist going down that path. Being grateful for the present moment is something I have been working. Blessings

  20. Thanks for co-hosting, Kim. Yes, I agree, it’s all about being kind to our inner child.

  21. mlouisebarbourfundyblue's avatar mlouisebarbourfundyblue says:

    Thanks for co-hosting, Kim! Helpful members like you keep the IWSG a wonderful group. I’m am not good at zoning-out. I know it’s very healthy to take breaks like that, so kudos to you for recognizing that your brain needs a break. Have a great May!

  22. We do need zone-out breaks.

    Thanks for co-hosting today!

  23. Jemima Pett's avatar Jemima Pett says:

    thanks for co-hosting today. You should like you’ve found a good balance!

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